This and That…

Beautiful, made-to-look-rustic vases

rustic vases

How gorgeous is this hair accent?

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Gold accents, anyone?  LOVE

gold

I can say with the utmost certainty that I’ve never seen a button bouquet before this one!

button bouquet

My kind of wedding…

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‘Til next time!

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This and That…

I started this on The Merry Ministers website, but now I think it’s more appropriate on this website, since I include random wedding stuff (not just ceremony specific), so from now on I’ll try to share my favorite wedding bits from the internet world a little more frequently ūüėČ

I’m loving this new trend of having a frame or something to post instant pictures onto (a recent wedding I worked had bicycle frames to put pictures on because the bride and groom were avid cyclers!).

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Same idea for seating cards is also great!

seating chart

I’ve seen plenty of small vases for center pieces (usually mason jars), but I really like this idea of using votive candle jars with wild flowers:

center pieces

What are your favorite ideas and trends?

 

Getting the Gift that Gives

Do you already have everything you need for your home? ¬†Do you have a passion for giving or volunteering? ¬†Then maybe instead of doing a traditional wedding registry you should do a charitable wedding registry or charitable favors! ¬†This idea seems to be gaining popularity, so there are several websites that provide this service so you don’t have to take care of anything other than registering and picking your charity!

IMPACT favors

IMPACT Favors promotes nonprofit organizations at weddings and events by utilizing IMPACT Favor cards to ignite a ripple effect of awareness and donations.” ¬†This is a charitable favors wedding, meaning that instead of spending money on favors that possibly¬†will never be used, you purchase favor cards after making a donation to the organization of your choice ($50 for 100 cards). ¬†These favor cards are placed at each table setting, and the hope is that your guests will make donations as well! ¬†The organizations you can chose from (as of May 6, 2015) are: Angelman Syndrome Foundation, Safe Families for Children, Wish Upon A Wedding, and Pathways to Independence. ¬†There are no fees taken or added to donations.

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I Do Foundation helps engaged couples¬†celebrate generously¬†by making charity a part of their wedding. ¬†I Do Foundation has two primary goals: 1) Help couples raise donations for a charity of their choice; 2) Change the culture of the bridal industry so that charity becomes an accepted and expected part of weddings.” ¬†Like IMPACT Favors, you make a donation to a selected charity through the I Do Foundation, and I Do provides you with place cards for each table setting (you can purchase the cards through The Knot Shop starting at $19.95 or you can print them yourself with a template that is emailed to you). ¬†I Do Foundation also has selected charities in the following areas: Children, Youth, and Families, Community Development, Education, Environment, Health, and Social Justice. There is an 8% fee that is added to a guest’s donation when they make a donation online.

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Truffles For a Cause is a way to donate AND give to your guests: you can make a donation or pay a portion per truffle, and get a favor card as well as a truffle for each guest.  You can find a list of the charities to chose from here (you can even pick two different charities).  Their pricing can be a bit tricky, as each option (DIY, DIY boxed, caramel, foil, etc.) is different and each option has three payment options: you can make your own donation in addition to the cost of the truffles, you can donate a portion of the cost of each truffle, or you can make no donation at all (which defeats the purpose, in my opinion, hehe).

Want to go beyond wedding favors?  Check out this list from Bridal Guide and see how many little details of your wedding can be reused or re-thought, from donating your flowers to a local nursing home/hospital, to involving your bridal party in a volunteer event and more!

Hopefully I’ll be able to add some more resources to this post in the future! ¬†Do you have a website that you used for your wedding? ¬†Let us know in the comments!

Winter Formal: Winter Wonderland

So every Christmas, since I was about 15 years old, I get a bunch of friends together and we make gingerbread houses, out of graham crackers. ¬†It’s always a stressful but fun event (if you haven’t done these before, getting those walls to stay up using just frosting is a bit of a challenge!), and it’s gotten more fun with the introduction of wine.

Last year was the first year that I tried to do this along with a baby (Jake was 4 months old), and I gotta admit, it just wasn’t as enjoyable, haha. ¬†Other friends have babies as well, and keeping them away from all the candy and frosting is just not really worth the satisfaction of seeing your completed gingerbread house! ¬†I’m excited to get this tradition going again once the kids get a little older and they can make gingerbread houses of their on, but for now we decided to switch to an adults only holiday dinner. ¬†So this year we had our very first Winter Formal!

I was able to book a reservation over a month in advance with Cucina Enoteca at the Irvine Spectrum, and I worked closely with their event coordinator, Ruth, to make sure I could bring all sorts of little details and decorations. ¬†I got started with centerpieces and decorations far enough in advance so I wouldn’t be freaking out the day before!

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Found these plastic reindeer at Michael’s, and I’m pretty sure I snatched up the last ones in the whole area. ¬†I went back to several stores to try to buy more and they were all gone. ¬†Glad I bought the ones I did when I did! ¬†I added a little silver spray paint and they looked great!
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I collected branches and pine cones and did a bottom layer of white spray paint, then I used spray adhesive to get some good layers of epsom salts on there, then did a final layer of glitter to give them a little glimmer.  I ended up putting the branches in two separate clear vases to have to large centerpieces, and they looked great!  I will say that these need to be done close to the event, because the epsom salts can dry out!

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I also made a photo back drop using a large baby blue cloth, and added some Christmas trees that Jeff drew out and cut out for me (Christmas trees are NOT one of my strengths), a couple gold stars, some glitterey white fabric for snow, and some snowflakes. ¬†I added some stuffing to the trees and snow to give it a little more form, and I must say, I’m pretty happy with the outcome!
chalk sign

On the day of, I packed up a few boxes with all my goodies, and thankfully had Jeff’s help to unload and carry everything over to Cucina Enoteca to get set up before everyone arrived. ¬†Above is my first attempt at some chalk art ūüėČ (credit also goes to Jeff who helped with some key elements!).

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Testing out the photo backdrop ūüôā
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Cucina Enoteca provided an extra table for photo props as well as this little set up, where guests wrote out what they loved the most about Christmas on a paper ornament, then hung their ornament on one of the branch centerpieces.  During dessert, we went around and read these aloud and tried to guess who wrote each one.

cucina enoteca¬†Each plate also had a hand-picked bunch of pine needles to add a little Winter Wonderland feel ūüôā ¬†We even had a personalized menu, eek!
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I brought silver charges to add to the table set up, as well as silver candle holders, both of which really added a nice look to the table.
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I didn’t get any pictures of the food, but it was all delicious, the service was great…

girls group

And the company was quite spectacular ‚̧jeff and iMe and my #1 helper and supporter!

I had such a great time putting this event together, and from what I can tell, everyone that attended had a good time as well.  Glad our first year sans gingerbread houses went ok!

Nature Setting DIY Wedding

Back in April I was asked by one of my best high school friends if I would assist her in coordinating a wedding (she’s a wedding coordinator over at Christine Lustig Events). ¬†It was wonderful to work along side and catch up with someone who was such a dear friend in high school, and I’m hoping to work with her again in the future!

This wedding had all sorts of DIY elements, which came together beautifully. ¬†Although I helped set up for the ceremony, I was happiest when I got to set up the tables in the reception area–including mason jars filled with a variety of small and colorful flowers, and hand made wooden table numbers.

The ceremony took place outdoors at a the stunning Oak Canyon Nature Center, in Anaheim, CA, and the reception was at Orange Hill Restaurant in Orange, CA.

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Bachelorette Weekend in San Diego

What better way to re-start this blog than by sharing a wonderful bachelorette weekend in San Diego for one of my dearest friends?

It’s always funny to hear how boys plan the bachelor party the week of…not so for girls! ¬†We spend months sending a flurry of emails back and forth trying to nail down every single detail. ¬†In the end, everyone has fun, but I definitely like knowing way ahead of time that everything is taken care of ūüôā

My good friend Sarah and I drove down to San Diego from Orange County, while the rest of the 10 ladies took the train, so that we could check in and get the room set up and decorated. We stayed at the Omni and I have to say: it was amazing! ¬†The rooms were clean, but what really impressed me was the service–they were amazing and provided all the little (and big) extras that we requested.

As far as decorating the room, I was quite proud with the end result!

bachelorette display

I made a cute little banner that said “bride to be” using fabric and a nice, glittery burlap from Joanne’s. ¬†The colors for the wedding are a rainbow of pastels, so I tried to go with that. ¬†I also handmade some decorative garlands that we threw around the whole room. ¬†I found these great little personalized hangover kit bags on Etsy, which I then filled with:

  • a couple pony tails,
  • mini pack of gum,
  • couple tablets of peptobismal,
  • chapstick,
  • an Emergen-C packet, and
  • a single dose pack of either Advil or Tylenol.

I wanted to put more in there, but space was limited, haha.  I placed these bags in each wine glass with each girls name, and I think the over all effect was pretty nice!

After the girls arrived, we went to The Blind Burro for lunch.  Delicious, happy hour specials, and no wait to be seated!

After the girls arrived, we went to The Blind Burro for lunch. Delicious, happy hour specials, and no wait to be seated!

Back at the hotel, one of the games I decided to go with was to have each girl buy the bachelorette a pair of underwear, and bring that (unwrapped) along with a “wish” for the bride and groom. ¬†The point of the game is for the bride to try and guess who provided which pair of underwear. ¬†I provided a form that could be typed in so the bride wouldn’t recognize everyone’s writing, since that would make the game way too easy! (You can see it here:¬†Annie’s Bachelorette Wishes.)

bachelorette panties

It ended up being even more fun than I thought, mostly because of someone’s recommendation that the bride put on each pair of underwear that she guessed correctly. ¬†Definitely my favorite part of this game. ¬†Well…hearing everyone’s wishes was also pretty great! I had decided that the “winner” for prize purposes would be the girl who’s wish and underwear were guessed correctly by the bride; however, this bride had really good deductive and detective skills, so all the girls that she guessed correctly ended up picking a number to break the tie!

Along with the underwear and wishes I also hung up a gift for the bride: a personalized hangar that she could use on her wedding day for her wedding gown photos.  Another Etsy purchase.

We ended the games with a simple “kiss the guy in his boxers,” then headed out!

bachelorette kissesWe stopped by a random sports bar for a drink to kill some time (we had planned on hanging out by the pool, but the weather was not agreeable with these plans), then decided to head early to BarBasic where we had a reservation made. ¬†This place was good (great vibe) and interesting, but don’t believe them when they say a medium serves only two! ¬†We ended up with soooo manny pizzas! ¬†We were all obsessed with our waitress who was stunning.

After this we tried to get into a speakeasy (I think it was Noble Experiment), but our party was too big for the area, and they were booked with reservations.  BUT, it was cool to try to get in through their secret keg wall!

Instead we headed to the Tipsy Crow, where we had to wait for the dance floor to open (we all quickly realized how old we are really getting!). ¬†The website says there is a cover charge, but we never paid anything to get in–probably because we got there so early, haha. ¬†This place had perfect music to dance away! ¬†I think everyone had a great time showing off their dance moves.

We had plans for the hotel spa after this, but it was closed, and I think everyone was pretty happy to just head to bed!

Our last planned event was brunch at Bailiwick. ¬†The food was ok, but I think the style of the place was the best part. ¬†I couldn’t stop obsessing over everything!

bachelorette brunch

This was also where we gave the bachelorette her last gift of the weekend: a photo frame kissed by all the girls that attended!

bachelorette frame

My one suggestion: practice your kisses before you do it on the frame…mine ended up looking super sad, haha.

And who doesn’t want to end their time in San Diego by enjoying a free hopscotch across the intersection?

bachelorette hopscotch

It may have been months in the planning and at least a hundred emails back and forth to coordinate, but damn, I love when things go perfectly as planned!